Um. My husband just informed me that we've been married 41 years, not 40... Maybe one of the reasons we've stayed married so long is that my memory is terrible and I also forget the bad stuff that happened.

This is a good thread ff. Thanks for getting us to take a minute and reflect on our lives. Big or small, the things we are proud of are important and we should be proud of ourselves. I think we spend a lot of time beating ourselves up and everyone deserves a pat on the back now and then.