What's the Meanest Thing an Ex Has Ever Done to You?

**Dances_in_Underwear** · May 20th, 2010

I'll get the ball rolling. I once dated a guy who broke up with me for his internet girlfriend who lived on the other side of the country. Needless to say, I was furious.

Anyone else have an interesting story about something mean or heartless an ex has done to them?

**labec1130** · May 21st, 2010

I walked 6 miles to my ex's house to lose my virginity to him after 6 months of intense wooing, and he never called or answered his phone after that night. Pretty messed up huh?

**PatInTheHat** · May 21st, 2010

Simply said, she said, in a room full of people mind you, "I do"

....oh yeah, don't I know it!

**Moderator** · May 21st, 2010

Tell me he'd been having an affair for the past couple of years which was bad enough but to add a little salt to the wound, it was the week before Christmas, our daughter was a month old, and it was a little over a year since our 6 month-old son had died (his twin had been stillborn). At our first (and last) appointment for marriage counseling, he arrived late to inform me and the counselor that I was the one who needed marriage counseling, not him and then walked out. My daughter and I were on a plane headed back East 4 months later after the divorce papers had been filed. After a few years to put things in perspective, my regret is that I didn't take the Porsche instead of the plane when we left. That was a sweet little car!

**Becks19** · May 21st, 2010

My ex cheated on me with someone who was supposed to be my friend. While I was at work, working my tail off, he was working his off as well......just in the wrong way.

**boogerb53** · May 21st, 2010

I dread what this says about me but please take into account my husband had died, I was in self destruct mode and was pretty much at the end of my mental and physical rope.

I was the soon to be ex and was in an extremely bad relationship and there was cheating and drugs involved with both of us. Things had come to a head and I had found out he was tellng his friends details of our sex life and that was the reason they were all coming onto me so I picked up a hibachi and threw it through the patio glass door, lit coals and all. I left for good a week later.

**Anni M** · May 21st, 2010

Originally Posted by boogerb53

I dread what this says about me but please take into account my husband had died, I was in self destruct mode and was pretty much at the end of my mental and physical rope.

I was the soon to be ex and was in an extremely bad relationship and there was cheating and drugs involved with both of us. Things had come to a head and I had found out he was tellng his friends details of our sex life and that was the reason they were all coming onto me so I picked up a hibachi and threw it through the patio glass door, lit coals and all. I left for good a week later.

What this says about you, Booger, is that you are not afraid of being honest. Thank you for sharing.
You are not alone, I was in self destruct mode most of my life, and very lucky to have had the steam to pull outta that tailspin.

**TBlack** · May 21st, 2010

She took my Penis!
Took me years to get it back!
Still ain't right!

**Anni M** · May 21st, 2010

The meanest thing my ex did--holy crap; where do i start? I'll share one thing.
I was a big girl and loved my food. My weight yo yo'd a lot if I wasn't body building. My ex knew that this was the one button that he could push and get instant gratification...so I decided anorexia would be the answer and didn't eat a decent meal for about a year and a half. I was at my thinnest --117 pounds (my mum thought I had AIDS or cancer--seriously, I was a stick!) and one day while I was dressing for work, he said, "Well, if you lost another 5 pounds, you'd be perfect."
I never have forgotten that.

**sam peebles** · May 21st, 2010

Slept with my brother. We were young, and it wasn't a serious relationship, but it was still messed up. I'm glad it happened though, as I was able to break it off early before anything worse happened (she threatened me with a pregnancy scare too, but it was just a bluff...I can't imagine what my life would be like if it had been real). That girl had some heavy mental health problems. My brother has mental problems too, but that's for a different thread...