Seeing the dead....:(

[harvester_of_sorrow]

So I had another dream of my dead father. I had about 6 in total. But its been 3 years now. In this one, it was so real. I woke up crying. It was amazing to see him, hear him, touch him...and just to lose it all over. HE told me he wished his sister would try harder. I called mexico to see if my aunt was ok. The phone is disconnected. The last we heard of her she was having surgery. I don't know what to do. I just have this bad vibe inside me. I can feel it. What should I do?!


-Harvey

[Charms7]

Oh goodness, Harvey, I don't know how the authorities in Mexico work. Is there a neighbor, or the hospital, can you phone someone like that? If not, the police? Can the police help you find out if she's okay?

After my mother passed away eighteen years ago, I had dreams about her practically every night during the first year or so. So real. She had Alzheimer’s in the end of her life and suffered so badly. In my dreams, she was perfectly fine and I would tell her (in my dreams), "Oh Mom, I had such a terrible nightmare about you last night!" But, of course, it was all a dream. The reality was she was not here, she had passed over.

I pray your aunt is doing well and all turns out positively for you and your family, Harvey.

(((((Harvey and family)))))

[Perse Jr.]

That's got to be SO hard Harvey. Do you know where your aunt worked? Or do you know where she was supposed to have surgery? Maybe if you called either of those two places it would be a place to start. I'm guessing you don't have any other relatives near your aunt who could check in on her. Maybe you could send her a letter, heck, even send one FedEx so she gets it right away, and ask her to give you a call ASAP?

I hope it all works out Harvey......

[jenboxer77]

I believe that our loved ones come and visit in our dreams when they have passed away. That is why the dreams feel so real, not like a regular dream. Everything turns out right in the end, but let us know if you are able to contact her or if you find out any other news. (((((Harvester)))))

[whoopsipoppedaplatypus]

Sorry, but i can't suggest anything that anyone hasn't already said. It's only just over a year since i lost my mum, and i'm home for the summer holdays from uni at the moment and i've been dreaming of her a lot. It's the first time i've spent a significant time at home since.

When i dream of her, i always wake with a smile. It reminds me of what a wonderful person she was, and how lucky i was to have had her as my mum. I'm reminded of the little things we did together that had slipped my memory. I'm not a particularly supersticious person, so i don't make anything more of it than dreams, but it just makes me think how lucky i was to have shared the time we had together.

Although i've been hunting for a necklace she gave me since i've been back. I've looked everywhere, but couldn't find it. I woke one morning last week with a sudden huge urge to look in an envelope which i had forgotten i had, i jumped out of bed (which is so unlike me), went straight to the drawer where i kept it and found the necklace. Can't remember dreamimg of it though. Wierd........

[harvester_of_sorrow]

Thanks you guys, so far i've had no weird or way of communication. But i'm sure if anything was wrong, they would try to contact me to let me know right? He hasn't visited my dreams since, but i had to take his pictures down. something about seeing his face sends chills. Idk why, but ever since my dad died, i've been afraid of him..

-Harvey