Anyone else find it heartbreaking?

[Icingsugar]

I have just finished IT for the second time and it has struck me once again that above all other things this novel is (terrifying, funny, witty etc) it is also deeply upsetting in places. I have seen posts on here about hoe brilliant, scary and disturbing the book is but none eloborate on the sheer sadness and im wondering if its just me who cries in places.

Some (but not all) parts which I find almost unbearably sad and which stay with me after I put the book down:

George's death and most specifically the way Bill remembers the last moments with him.

Ben's childhood. The bullying. His unrequited love for Bevvy. I find the part where he decides to spend his pocket money on a postcard and writes her the poem so sweet and sad. Also later when he tells her that shed laugh in his face if a boy like him wrote the poem.

Mikes memories of his dying father.

Mr chips being poisoned.

Eddies death and them leaving him in the dark sewers.

Bev seeing Stan and Eddy in the mirror one last time when they are both dead

The fact their friendship breaks apart and after the promise they never are together again (all 7 at least)

The fact they all forget each other and what they shared except in dreams. The last line of the book was heartbreaking.

[GNTLGNT]

...it's not just you...I have shed tears over the sadness, but also the joy that is found amongst the varying degrees of darkness....

[mjs9153]

that is why his writing is so brilliant,it mirrors life so well..the ups,downs,fears,and yes the sadness too.I think he draws you into his world while you recall bits and pieces or your own past..wonderful talent,imo..

[SaiPandora]

I have always found the ending incredibly sad. To go through all that, with such amazing companions and dear friends...and then to forget it all, and forget your dearest friends? Breaks my heart. My husband, on the other hand thinks it was the perfect ending; because who would want to remember the terror and pain? I don't know...if remembering the terror and pain meant keeping my closest friends, I'd want to remember. I think. ;)

[The Nameless]

It is not just you. I am also on my 2nd read and while I dont cry ever from books, parts of it are very upsetting, and thankfully on a 2nd read I already know that Bevs friend gets violently beaten, and Mikes dog gets slowly poisoned so I skipped over those bits, and will probably do so for a few other hard to read parts.

[dallaspowers81]

Everything you just listed, made the tears well up in my eyes again. I just finished the book a few days ago, and especially the closing words about what Bill dreams about was so touching, sad, yet beautiful. That two parts about the dogs dying... Mr. Chips, and the dog with Patrick... made me drop the book and ball my eyes out. I love Stephen King, but man... he is a dog killer with his stories. :(


I also hated how they left Eddie down there... but it seemed very realistic. The fact they they all started to forget each other, was so saddening.

[mjs9153]

[QUOTE=dallaspowers81;551115]Everything you just listed, made the tears well up in my eyes again. I just finished the book a few days ago, and especially the closing words about what Bill dreams about was so touching, sad, yet beautiful. That two parts about the dogs dying... Mr. Chips, and the dog with Patrick... m
ade me drop the book and ball my eyes out.
Dallas not to be funny,but that is "BAWL my eyes out.." the way you wrote it has, I am sure, unintended sexual connotations..ok,it was a little funny..:grinning:

[~Ally~]

Dallas not to be funny,but that is "BAWL my eyes out.." the way you wrote it has, I am sure, unintended sexual connotations..ok,it was a little funny..:grinning:

I'm sorry, but I don't see what the "unintended sexual connotations" of Dallas' misspelling could be...I'm open to being enlightened, though. We all make spelling errors at some point or other, if other people are anything like me they could cringe when they realise and don't have the means to edit the post and rectify the mistake. I'm sure Ms Mods workload would be vastly increased if we all started commenting on each error individually. :smile2:

[CCAL]

one of my favs. yes please dont bawl me out if I spell wrong or type something inaccurately. if I cant trust you all I will just have to leave here. I want to discuss kings works and try to understand as best I can.I often get in a hurry and goof upbut I mean well.
The sadness in IT really hits a nerve with me. its something I know alot about. If I had lived in Derry during that time I would likely have been a Loser. probably a newly moved into the area loser like Ben. I think many of us feel the same about one character or another at some point in our life. I think Jake from DT was a Loser all alone as well.

[~Ally~]

one of my favs. yes please dont bawl me out if I spell wrong or type something inaccurately. if I cant trust you all I will just have to leave here. I want to discuss kings works and try to understand as best I can.I often get in a hurry and goof upbut I mean well.

There won't be any bawling out from here...your sentiments are correct. Not everyone is perfect at reading/writing but that doesn't make their contributions towards discussions any less valid.

IT has always been my favourite novel. I love the natural progression of the Losers friendships from childhood to adulthood, as soon as they start to remember the past their bonds are quickly reaffirmed. Proof that real friendship doesn't die, even though things can easily be forgotten. IT is a very bittersweet story, and so much more than just horror when you look beneath the surface.

[Cowboy]

Such great stories always stirs emotions.

[GNTLGNT]

....my favorite Temptations smash hit...."Bawl of Confusion"....:wink2:

[mjs9153]

There won't be any bawling out from here...your sentiments are correct. Not everyone is perfect at reading/writing but that doesn't make their contributions towards discussions any less valid.

IT has always been my favourite novel. I love the natural progression of the Losers friendships from childhood to adulthood, as soon as they start to remember the past their bonds are quickly reaffirmed. Proof that real friendship doesn't die, even though things can easily be forgotten. IT is a very bittersweet story, and so much more than just horror when you look beneath the surface.
I just wanted to say I am sorry if I offended anyone here or made the poster feel bad,I have already apologized to him/her and ccal by pm,ally I would have also to you over the weekend but your page was not accepting..I would never want anyone to feel minimalized or awkward about their posts and hope my silly comment was not taken in that context..to ball,well,in urban language in the States,can mean to have sex,but also to play basketball,like "let's go ball!"..however I have seen it in the former,as in "we balled our brains out!"..and the similiarity struck me as humorous..Sometimes(well most times)I have a somewhat sophomoric sense of humor,and I truly did not mean to hurt anyone.. please accept my apologies if I have done so..mjs:smile2:9153

[~Ally~]

I just wanted to say I am sorry if I offended anyone here or made the poster feel bad,I have already apologized to him/her and ccal by pm,ally I would have also to you over the weekend but your page was not accepting..I would never want anyone to feel minimalized or awkward about their posts and hope my silly comment was not taken in that context..to ball,well,in urban language in the States,can mean to have sex,but also to play basketball,like "let's go ball!"..however I have seen it in the former,as in "we balled our brains out!"..and the similiarity struck me as humorous..Sometimes(well most times)I have a somewhat sophomoric sense of humor,and I truly did not mean to hurt anyone.. please accept my apologies if I have done so..mjs:smile2:9153

Thanks for the info, I didn't know there was any sexual connotations for "to ball" so you have taught me something new. Now I just need to work out a way of discreetly dropping it into everyday conversations. :wink2:

Also, you definitely did not upset me, so I apologise if that's how it came across. I felt like Dallas provided a decent response to the thread--it's nice to have a newbie post without criticism--and I thought if that was my first post and somebody pulled me up on a spelling error I'd probably never post again. That's all. We can be quite an intimidating bunch at times, especially without realising it. I try not to scare the newbies away until I've at least had a chance to play with them first. :devil:

*Why am I picturing Lennie and his rabbits again?? :eek2: *

[mjs9153]

Of course..that is why I said unintended,and posted a smiley at the end,and thanked and welcomed the poster..,because hurting someone or making them feel bad is the farthest thing from my mind..I only hope they can see from my post on the book also,back in September,I quite agree with the post and it happens to be my favorite SK book too..I would never try to discourage someone from posting,or be overly critical,I too like hearing how people feel about the books..so once more, I am sorry..:sad:

[dallaspowers81]

I was offened... Being reprimanded by the spelling/grammar police on my first posting, was not a good introduction to these forums. However, mjs9153 did apologize. So all is well now.

[floating_balloon]

I didn't cry at anything but I think Eddy's death was the moment that made me shout in my head "NOOOOOOOOOO! You killed Eddy you bastard!!!!"

The ending I felt to be great. Very bitter-sweet the opposite of the american hollywood ending. Even though I was extremely sad that they forget each other. I wasn't sure if that was because IT had been truly killed or if IT was still (barely) alive and was wiping their memories so they couldn't ever return to finish the job.

Although part of me wishes that Audra died or never recovered.

[dallaspowers81]

Although part of me wishes that [SPOILER]Audra died or never recovered.

Oh whoa, how come?

[kylallie]

Such great stories always stirs emotions.

Brilliantly said, and the beautiful thing about this book is that it tugs at all the different heartstrings in every emotion! (Often simultaneously!) I personally found both times they forgot each other (when they were kids and then also parted as adults) heartbreaking.... there are so many emotional aspects in this story both good and bad, it would take forever to go into how it makes the reader feel... lets just say that its a book that opens the mind and heart in an extraordinary amount of ways!!!

[floating_balloon]

Oh whoa, how come?

Audra recovering never really sat right with me, I don't know why. It just never felt right. :/

[tenngolfer]

Just finished the reread of IT for the first time, since I first read the book when it was first released. The book brought up all sorts of childhood memories and friendships. I think Mr. King did a great job of story telling and giving us a "view of life". I really hated them loosing their memories, but upon reflection, I think this also happens in life after getting through horrific struggles. Years after my own family's struggles (during childhood), when things were peaceful and going in the right direction (as adults), we compared notes about some of the "bad times"; and each of us had "blocked out" certain details, again probably as a coping mechanism.
Also, having moved around as an adult and having formed strong positive realtionships at each of those locations, I felt bad about leaving my friends and co-workers behind, but moved anyway to the next challenge. I have fond memories of each of those locations, but the details fade through time, just as it did for the Losers club.