Oh dear. I'm so sorry to hear that your family is going through this. Many hugs to all of you. I'll pray that your son - who is responsible for his own actions, not you two - finds his way back onto the path.
I understand what you are going through only too well, I have six children and they all have had their moments as kids do but my seventeen year old son has been a nightmare for the last three years. He was thrown out of school, been arrested several times, been agressive and violent and has stolen from us constantly,we have all had to basically put locks on everything in the home, the last time he stole he actually ripped my safe off the wall. He has been through mental health, councilling etc and at times he drove me to the limit but he is my son and for all the pain, worry and stress he has caused everyone, regardless of it all I love him dearly and will continue to be there for him and carry on the fight, we all do, we will support him and give him all the help he needs. I really understand what you are going through I really do, but as they say chin up mate! you are not alone. My thoughts are with you and your family.
yes, I will keep you in my thoughts and send you positive energy. I think you are awesome and good hearted, and I believe deep down that it is only a troubling teenage mistake on your son's part and he'll grow up into a fine man. Sometimes we do end up with the wrong crowd.. in a way it is a blessing that he was caught now.. It definitely is a heartache for you..
it must end good. there is no other way and never ever let your thoughts make you think otherwise. Sending love to you and your wife.
(Scott, Tracy and family) My thoughts, prayers and positives are are being sent your way. There is so much peer pressure in today's society, that youth often chose the wrong path to follow. May this bring your son back to the right path. I hold Tracy close and pray she understands that no matter what- the only one that you can control is yourself. She did nothing wrong. May you both find inner peace. I'm here if you need me, Scott.
Last edited by Spideyman; May 26th, 2013 at 07:53 AM.
Sad and unfortunate news, Scott, I don't know what to say. I imagine your wife knows how devastated you are. I imagine your son realizes the error in his decisions and I hope that he asks for forgiveness and that your family can come together again as one.
...I am truly blessed...you have all reminded me of that...and Musk, I can bear hug all of ya-God knows you all deserve one...and please remember my philosophy-"humor is my shield and love my strength"...I am strong because of my family at home, and because of my second family here...I hope you know I love you all...