I get it Todash, I really do. My heart is breaking for the victims and I really think that is where everyone's focus should be right now. We are hearing a lot of tirades about gun control, safety in the schools and assistance with mental illness, yes, these are all things that should be discussed in time, right now the focus should be on providing support and empathy to the families of the fallen.
Mental illness has affected my extended family in ways that I just can't explain, even with that said I can't let my sympathy for the struggles in the shooter's life overshadow my sorrow for the families affected. I am not in any way saying that any of you are so please don't think that.
I am having a really hard time explaining what I mean. Please don't take any of my comments the wrong way

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