They're not in my vocabulary either, I sincerely despise those words.Two other words have never been in my vocabulary and never will be - the "n" word and the "c" word. Yes, they are "just words", but they are ugly words and they are meant to hurt or put people down.
I also think that people who swear for the effect and then gripe that it should not be considered a big deal are not thinking clearly. If it's not a big deal, then why do you have to swear?
why do you have to swear
It's cathartic and I've learned to do it when there's the time and the place for it. Just speaking personally, but after stubbing my toe to the point that I'm seeing spots, uttering a "golly, gee, did that hurt" just doesn't express my feelings the same way a "f*ck, f*ck, mother f*ck that hurts!" does.
P.S. However, I would not say that (out loud) had I stubbed my toe in public. Time and place, you know.
But I DO love a good motherf*ck when it's needed!